People come and people go from your life. Some make an impression on you and others make you shake your head in disbelief. Those who prove to you they love you usually are the ones who will be hurt more by your actions. Those who are around out of convenience will be the ones who ignore your calls and texts. Always remember that in the end, it's those we love most that we hurt.
So when you feel that distance, take a moment to ask yourself "what did I do wrong" and then move forward and fix it. Don't let them push you away if you truly care about them.
There will be anger. There will be heartache. May even be some tears. But don't give up on a friendship or a relationship that in your heart you know is meant to be kept. Just realize that we ALL make mistakes and sometimes those mistakes hurt people we love, so we have to suck up our pride and deal with it. To be so full of yourself that you would forget about someone you love is a common thing amongst us, and not everyone does and not everyone understands. All I can say is.....Don't give up.
The ones who give us the most silence are the ones who we hurt the most and who loved us the most. Realize that....and you will find that the people who are meant to be in your life will always be in your life.
Friends, forget the petty differences. Suck up your pride, and move forward to correct what is bad and make it right. Because we all fuck it up and well we all will continue to fuck it up. But those who love us the most will always love us and be around.
Never give up......
This is such a great post. Thank you. I'm being hurt by someone I truly love at the moment but as you say sometimes this happens but love does not come to an end. God bless you. Geoff.
ReplyDeleteAnd sometimes you have to stop all contact with someone who has been in and out of your life for over 20 years because they continue to hurt you. There has to be a point where trying and forgiveness is no longer the way... when the pain is just too much and its for self-preservation that you cut ties.
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